Let's see if I was able to keep track of them all:
1) Only get gifts for people if u see something for them and want to get it. If you don't, no pressure. Christmas has evolved into too much pressure as it is!
2) Appetizer's only. I kinda like a different take off on this one: Bring one or two of your favorite eats and we'll have a crazy-quilt type of eating: totally non-sensical. If someone brings mashed potatoes, great, if someone brings guava jam with chedder cheese, great. If AB makes her rolls, great. Etc, etc. Though the
"appetizer's only" idea sounds GREAT! I've heard of other families doing that: they just graze on appetizers all day long. sounds kinda unhealthy, BUT sure beats someone having to stress out about dishes, coordinating/cooking all that food, etc.. Whaddya all think about AC's suggestion? (and oh yeah, obviously people can do dairy stuff-we just offer alternatives so Jim has at least three or four things to eat. Not just potatoes and meat, like one Thanksgiving in particular!!!) (As far as no white flour/sugar, etc. I think that is pretty much a lost cause)
3) I really don't think celebrating the
weekend AFTER Christmas next year will work for quite a few people's schedule (ie, military and medicine) as you're allowed only a few set, precious days off to run home really quickly.
Any other ideas people? (and PS A,C and Cody: we really missed you and wished you were with us!!)